What would Socrates do?

Oh, I know.  We all love a juicy rumor.  The titillating details of someone else’s secrets. While entertaining, spreading gossip can really hurt you, your friends, and family.

As the Greek philosopher Socrates once counseled; before you let the words escape your lips, ask yourself; is it true, is it good, is it necessary?

• Regarding the truth: Do I know for a fact that this story is true? Will I be able to prove it to anyone? Am I willing to risk my own reputation for truthfulness over this?

• Regarding the good: Does it benefit me or the other person? Will it make them or me a better person? Will the situation of those involved improve?

• Regarding the necessary or useful: By knowing this message, will that person’s life or my life improve? Can that person take any practical action regarding this information or message? In what way does not knowing this information hurt or affect the other person?

Bottom line, think before you open your mouth!

José Borrego

Attorney

Joseborregolaw.com

(916) 446-4911